Negative's Postive?

I want to address something pretty serious for a change! :P

Well you cannot blame me, the Year is coming to any end, and this is precisely THAT time of the year which marks a lot of fortunate – unfortunate, necessary – unnecessary, happy – unhappy feelings and thought process. I have been going through a multitude of them over the past few weeks but I haven’t been able to put them down because of excessive work load and hectic schedules of both mine as well as my friends. Yes, the happenings in our friend’s life affect us. They make us think… they make us experience different situations without actually being in them, right?

Today, I want to talk rather write about Negativity. We often talk about erasing negative beliefs, breaking through harmful thought patterns, and getting in Flow to help us move towards our goals. But this is often easier said than done. In fact I say, why should there be no negativity? There needs to be the presence of Negativity in Life in order to be able to appreciate and cherish the positivity.

How can we be grateful for Light when we have never suffered in the Darkness? How can we be pleased with our Success when we have not been depressed with our Failure?

No, I am Not saying we need to be Immerse ourselves in the ever failing darkness submerged by the negativity, but a fine blend, that would do wouldn’t it? A delicate balance, a beautiful amalgamation…Will this not result in something new, beautiful, sincere and genuine.

I have seen quite a few examples in the past week, No. 1 *Veena Malik* screaming, crying and howling at *Ashmit Patel* on Big Boss Season 4 (yes I am a FAN of BB4, so what? :P) and my close friend, Sachu who just got a very well deserved raise after having slogged out for such a long time.

Veena getting upset with Ashmit and the simultaneous battle of words and flying sandals ended with them hugging and kissing each other before the end of the day! How would they know how much the cared for each other, how much they like/love each other, how much they mean to each other without them having gone through these numerous fights that they do? They maybe scripted and rehearsed for all I care, but what I am talking about is the intricate nuances of Human Nature, Our Inner Identity!

My friend and I use to curse, bad mouth and spew venom at his Employer, for having treated him unfairly, but the minute the Raise came through, my heart swelled with happiness, gratitude and pride! After all they were noticing his hard work and did reward him albeit a bit late! *Better LATE than NEVER!* That IS the Banana Talk, Right Sachu? :P Congratulations Buddy! :D

Inside each of us is an “outline” that defines who we are. It governs everything from our weight, our height our confidence, our money mindset and how we deal with loved ones.

I call this Outline the "True Inner Personality". It's the mental map within our subconscious that makes us "US".

Almost all Personal Issues, Public events, problems, situations, trials, tribulations that we face are different creative visualizations designed by GOD Almighty to help US shape and mold this "True Inner Identity". Because whatever aspect of this Outline we change 'within' US, changes the exterior real world US as well.

So let’s quit saying Bad things about Negatives in Life! If it weren’t for Negativity, we would have been so positive! :D