Love is MORE of a Decision and Less of a Feeling…

One of the most Influential, Authoritative and Significant qualities that one has is one's feelings. Both feelings and emotions are often spoken of as one and the same, but at most times they completely stand aloof and independent and rightly so. We all know that the soul of humankind consists of the mind, will, emotions, intellect, and the imagination. All of these are the integral parts of an individual that are truly unique and most definitely MYSTERIOUS.

Unless one reveals her/his innermost feelings, they can be undetected and completely unknown. This is phenomenon quite often described by poets, musicians and various artists. One can quite easily smile on the outside and cry on the inside simultaneously. Feelings are most often very tricky. One can be sad at one moment and happy with the next fraction of a second. Just Like THAT!

There are a multitude of things that affect the way one feels. For instance, soft music or an aromatic candle can soothe feelings of stress. One can get angry, upset and irritated with another with a snap of a finger and just not why. It could be for a completely no reason or some reason that his or her subconscious mind had suddenly decide to remember. One can go to bed feeling exhausted and discouraged yet wake up feeling as though she/he can conquer the whole world. Well, maybe not the whole world but at least the situations she/he must face. One can allow one's self to be motivated by one's feelings or emotions.

It is pivotal that people realize not to overrule by her/his feelings. Feelings shouldn’t be the center of focus on One’s Life. Having said that, I should mention that it is quite difficult not to be influenced by one’s feelings. It is said that Time heals Wounds, but personally I feel that it is never quite possible to forget any experience. Experiences and memories are quite like unused houses, they don’t go away, they are very much there but only dusty… all we need to do is dust the wounds are as fresh as ever… Experiments have proved time and again that through Hypnosis, we can relive our past experiences, with just as much as passion, vigor and intensity.

One can make a decision to remain committed to anyone or anything, and one can also decide not to be moved by someone else’s feelings. I for one believe that love is definitely more of a decision that can/ is made and not merely a feeling. I have made a decision to LOVE my family and my friends irrespective of what I feel at any given moment. I might not always agree with them, but I will always LOVE them anyway.